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Preparing for a wedding is not an easy task as many imagine. Sure the idea of marriage is blissful and exciting, but the journey to the altar can be paved with doubts, fears and confusion, as well as excitement.

For starters excitement can take on the many faces of anxiety, nervousness and fear that can drive many couples running in opposite directions.  However, keep in mind its normal to have a number of thoughts jumping back and forth before the big day. Regardless of your traditional or non-traditional views all couples will experience some form of doubt or concern while getting ready for the wedding day.

I recently wrote a blog on addiction, which I know might make a few wonder why I would include should a topic in this site. For starters let me state I work with addicts and have done so for over 30 years. In my experience addiction contributes to the dynamics of both family and couples on many levels.

To provide understanding of a problem that impacts many, does not mean I expect my readers to endure the pain that accompanies being involved with an addict, nor does it mean I encourage people to remain if they wish to leave.

Its been a season or two since my last entry. I have been focusing on a new chapter which included enhancing my professional skills and techniques. I am excited to say that I am planning on offering a variety of classes that are tailored both for the individual and the professionals seeking classes for self-development as well as professional development.

 

For both the professional and the eternally curious I am offering classes for personal healing and intuitive explorations. For the professional, I am offering classes designed to incorporate intuitive techniques with professional therapeutic modalities.

Getting legally married in New York State

There are several steps required before a couple can legally be considered married. The link below provides a couple with the information needed to legally obtain a license to web in New York State.

http://www.cityclerk.nyc.gov./html/marriage/license.shtml

Once the license is obtained it is recognized state wide, so it can be issued from anywhere in New York and the ceremony can take place anywhere within the state of New York.  If a couple plans on being married in the State of New

Gods don't give us special treatment because we survive a crisis or had a painful life. Our experiences are our life lessons and not a reason to be treated special or have special privileges granted.   Many of us  get into self pity mode when things don't work and blame the universe for bad luck. But the fact is stuff happens and luck has little to do with it at times.   Sure you might have the type of luck where trains run you over or a flying toilet seat from an airplane hits you on the head. But do you really think the universe has nothing better to do then plot revenge on your narcissistic butt?   And if the universe has it in for you.  Ask yourself what did YOU do to obtain such wicked karma? Do you act like some entitle brat that thinks the world owes you? Do feel self righteous about your pretend good intentions. And think the world owes you a big thank you? Do you constantly envy the blessings of others and feel it should be you? Cause guess what? The universe does not cater to brats who make demands If you want the universe to listen. Be humble and genuine. The more we demand and plead to the universe based on the believe we "deserve" special treatment the less results we obtain. The key has a lot to do with balance and harmony. When we become demanding we are not operating from a place of balance but rather from a place of desperation. Which often means our ego is directing our efforts and what we demand is often coming from a spoil brat position rather then real deficiency in our life Next time you make demands to the universe and it doesn't happen your way. Ask yourself am I beng a king baby who wants what they want or simply a fragile soul who wants to be rescued from truly bad luck?